2019 update

Been wanting to come back here for quite some time, but my days have been going well. Have a lot of things in mind, but will be updating soon I promise :) Have a lot of inspirations and I can't wait to put everything into text and poems. Here is one article I've read across Thought Catalog this morning and I couldn't agree more. I am not really a huge fan of astrology but this totally describing me mentally, physically and spiritually. Shoutout to Natalia Vela, you did your homework well! 

This is an article from Natalia describing exactly what it is like to date a Gemini. I felt ironically as I felt exactly the same when I was still in a relationship, nothing in me has changed since I poured myself to a person I once loved so deeply. But well, it was a unforgetable past that I don't really wish to go back anymore. Any Gemini out here agreeing with the description below do let me know! :)

"The devilish Gemini is the most unpredictable of the Zodiac signs.

It’s very easy for the Gemini woman to charm people and flirting is second nature to her. Be prepared for a little competition while having your eyes set on her. She will have a group of fans at all times. Her charm and wit are irresistible and incredibly sexy. She can have others hanging on to her every word. And she loves to talk. A LOT. Be ready for a lot of story-telling and above all else, a lot of laughs.

Winning her over won’t be easy, but it will sure be worth it. She may seem hot and cold. One moment it may feel like she’s completely into you, while another she comes off as completely aloof. This is just part of her dual nature, and to attract her, you are going to have to learn how to keep up with it. One thing that’s for sure is that you will never be bored with her. Be prepared for her to change her mind constantly about dinner, what to do, what she wants, and pretty much just about everything.

Learning how to keep up with her in conversation and social settings will help you win her over. Seduce her through laughs and through the mind. Flirt, but not too much, let her do the flirting. She already thinks she’s won you over, let her come get you.

Don’t become offended when she is giving you a hard time or says something you can’t decide if you should find insulting. Not only is she testing you, but it means she’s very interested in you. Sometimes a joke at your expense may be the way she’s showing you how much she likes you.

The wild Gemini will be upfront and lay it all out for you, too soon even. One thing for certain is that you don’t want to make her angry by making her feel betrayed, in ANY WAY. You will come to know her erratic, hot-headed and sometimes brutal nature. Expect some words that sting, maybe even some tears on your part. Maybe you’ll get 15 missed calls, and 20 text messages letting you know how much of an asshole you are, or maybe you’ll try her phone only to realize you’ve been blocked. DO NOT TEST HER TRUST. Do not make her feel ignored either.

Overall, she’s one of the most generous and giving of the women of the Zodiac. She is reliable and supportive. Although unpredictable, you can always count on her being there when you need her. She has great words of wisdom and even greater love to give.

Like everything with a Gemini, sex can be a rollercoaster. She’s not looking for routine but for flair and imagination. Missionary doesn’t do it for her. Talk dirty to her. Spank her. Not a lot can be considered taboo with her. Ask her what she’s up for, she will never shy away from telling you what she wants in bed." - Natalia Vela, Thought Catalog,18th Feb 2019.